We are all challenged to refrain from losing our cool when faced with disagreements and unpleasant behavior on the part of others. I reckon a good start would be practicing humility and kindness these skills will never fail no matter what company we find ourselves in and will only do us and our future company good without trying too hard to be something we may never succeed. I was listening to this song by Selena Gomez. The following verse touched the very void in me that needed answers.
The world can be a nasty place
You know it, I know it, yeah
See, we don’t have to fall from grace
Put down the weapons you fight with. And kill em with kindness.
What I understood from this is the power of words. Wars and conflicts could’ve been avoided if the right path of communication was traced. I think what people fail to recognise these days,is the impact befallen by the simple things they say. The literal translation of this song is, “treat everyone kindly, even those who have hurt you.”
All my life,my mom always taught me that resilience goes a long way. Our reaction overpowers the actual problem statement. We fail to understand that our immaturity at the nick of the moment might collapse the whole foundation of respect and trust we’ve built. How beautiful it is to mind our own business and empower ourselves whilst healing,while negativity and rage is expected. This is the reason I keep telling myself,my dad has raised me to be a queen,not a princess.
Here I’m attaching a quote from a woman I absolutely idolise. Audrey Hepburn.
Peace-ology 